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Of all the techniques out there that lead to total female satisfaction, these are the ones experts say the majority of women overlook way too
often.
1. Do It Before Sundown
Most of us get it on before bed, but
that isn't the best time for women to have sex, says Laurie Mintz, PhD, author  of A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Not only are you sleepy, but  postwork worries cause your body to release the hormone cortisol, squashing your sex drive. In the a.m., women and men have naturally higher testosterone levels (which explains his morning wood). So set your alarm to go off earlier, and
give him a sexy wake-up call.
2. Treat Him Like a Sex Object
"Women spend too much energy  worrying about turning a guy on," says Joel Block, PhD, coauthor of Sex Comes First. To enjoy sex more, be selfish. Ogle your guy as if he were Taylor Lautner in Eclipse. By assuming the role of the "viewer" and focusing on  your desire, you're less likely to be self-conscious and more willing to do whatever comes to your dirty mind.
3. Let It All Hang Out
Do you suck in your tummy when  you're on top? Bad idea. That makes it harder to breathe deeply, which is a key  to reaching  orgasm, says certified sexuality educator Amy Levine. Instead, try the  tantric trick of slowing your breathing and taking deeper breaths. The extra  oxygen will make your orgasm more intense by increasing blood flow below the  belt.
4. Lock Eyes
You look everywhere but his eyes during the 
deed because it makes you feel vulnerable, says Block, but it's one of the best  ways you can connect when naked. It sends the message that you're really into  him and keeps your arousal high because your guy is mirroring his desire back at you. Ease into it by meeting his gaze for a few seconds and giving a sexy smile,  then build up to longer eye contact.

Old-school thinking  was that guys would  run for the nearest exit if  you pulled out a vibrator  during sex — the theory  being that it freaked them  out 
to have another  "package" in the room.  Thankfully, that's false.  Since so many dudes are  open to the awesome sensations a vibe can bring,  we got experts to spill  their best tips on using  one with him.
Buzz it on him before you strip him down.Lay him on the bed, turn it on, and rub it  over him. Start at his  knees, run up his upper thighs, and circle it around  the bulge in his pants. This  way, he'll get 
comfortable  with the feeling.
Start on a slow setting,and use the tip  to circle your nipples and  then his. As you circle,  turn up the speed. Alternate between the vibrator  and sucking his nipple   (he should do the same to  you). The 
back-and-forth  and the heat from your   lips feel amazing.
Turn it up full  throttle (the shaft of a  guy's penis isn't so sensitive, so he can handle it).  Then move it up one side  of his package and down  the other. It'll stimulate his entire penis and make him extrahard.
During oral, hold  the side of your vibe  against your cheek as you take him in and out.Your wet, quivering mouth  will feel unexpected  and  arousing.
While he uses his  tongue to pleasure you,  have him put the vibrator  inside you angled slightly  toward your belly button — that way, it 
will hit your  G-spot (the spongy, dimesize area about 2 inches  inside you that is pleasurepacked with nerves). The  combo of  stimulation   will make for an  incredibly  intense  orgasm.
His perineum — the  small patch of skin between  his balls  and anus — is  supersensitive. Pick up a  small, egg-shaped model  (putting anything bigger  near his booty may freak  him out), and whip it out  while  you're on top. As you  ride him, reach behind and  hold it against that  area.
If he is hesitant  about incorporating a toy  into sex, start him off  slowly with a vibrating ring  (RISE & SHINE from Bedroom Kandi). It's a silicone ring you can slip around his penis that has a bullet vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of his penis, and if he's on top the bullet will stimulate your clit

Getting comfortable with communicating about sex may translate to benefits in
the bedroom — especially if the lines of communication are open during the act.  
New research finds that comfort with sexual communication is directly linked
to sexual satisfaction. People who are more comfortable talking about sex are also more likely to do so
while having sex, the researchers found. Nonetheless, that difference doesn't
fully explain why the sexually chatty are happier with their erotic lives.
  "Even if you just have a little bit of anxiety about the communication, that affects whether you're communicating or not, but it also directly affected their satisfaction," said study researcher Elizabeth Babin, an expert on health communication at Cleveland State University in Ohio.
The anxiety "might be kind of taking them out of the moment and therefore reducing the overall satisfaction they experience during their encounters,"
Babin told LiveScience. [6 (Other) Great Things Sex Can Do For You]
Talking about sex
 How people talk about sex is an important topic for public health researchers. After all, people who are uncomfortable asking their partners to wear a condom may be at higher risk of having unprotected sex and exposing themselves to sexually transmitted infections. Communication is also key to having enjoyable sexual encounters, Babin said.
 But little research has delved into what keeps people from talking about their likes and dislikes while in bed, she said.
"In order to increase communication quality, we need to figure out why people are communicating and why they're not communicating," Babin said.
To do so, Babin recruited 207 people, 88 from undergraduate classes and 119 from online sites, to complete surveys about their apprehension about sexual communication, their sexual satisfaction and the amount of non-verbal and verbal communication they felt they enacted during sex. For example, participants were asked how much they agreed with statements such as, "I feel nervous when I think about talking with my partner about the sexual aspects of our relationship," and "I feel anxious when I think about telling my partner what I dislike during sex."
The participants, whose average age was 29, also responded to questions
about their sexual self-esteem, such as how good a partner they felt they were and how confident they were in their sexual skills.
Communication without words
The surveys revealed that apprehension in talking about sex can spoil one's sexual enjoyment, with that anxiety linked both to less communication in bed and less satisfaction overall. Unsurprisingly, less sexual communication apprehension and higher sexual self-esteem were both associated with more
communication during sex.
Communication during sex, in turn, was linked to more sexual satisfaction. Nonverbal communication
was more closely linked to satisfaction than verbal communication, Babin reported online in August in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.
Nonverbal cues may seem safer, Babin said.
"It could be perceived as being less threatening, so it might be easier to moan or to move in a certain way to communicate that I'm enjoying the sexual encounter than to say, 'Hey, this feels really good, I like that,'" Babin said. "That might seem too direct for some people."
Babin next plans to research couples to get both sides of the story and to
find out how couples' communication styles mesh with their sexual satisfaction.
The end goal, she said, is to give therapists and sex educators tools to help them teach people how to talk about sex more openly with their partners.
Sexual communication "is a skill," Babin said. "And we're not all well-trained in that skill."

I woke up this morning with a million and 1 things running through my mind. For starters, ME...selling SEX TOYS! OMG! Some say that it totally fits my personality, which is a good thing, but I wasn't always this comfortable discussing sex.
I grew up OLD SCHOOL! Sex wasn't talked about in my house. My birds & bees talk was "DON"T BRING NO BABIES UP IN HERE?" Period. Point blank.
I was "lucky" enough to be cursed with horrible menstrual cycles & cramps from HELL. I say "lucky" because the only thing that helped my heavy flow & cramps were birth control pills! YAAAYYYYY!!! So I was able to kill a few birds with 1 stone & not have to go to my mom & say "Mom, I think I want to have sex" & risk getting the shit slapped out of me & grounded until I was 30!
With my lack of knowledge as a teen & really noone to talk to...SEVERAL mistakes were made! My 1st time at the age of 15 was HORRIBLE! Honestly, I never really enjoyed sex until AFTER I had my first child. I NEVER had an orgasm until I was 24!!! Sex was just "something to do" because I had a boyfriend & believed that was the only way I could keep him.
Imagine my surprise when I first experienced the BIG O! LAWD HAMMERCY...you couldn't tell me I hadn't died & gone to Heaven! The seas parted, birds were singing, & the Earth moved!! HALLELUJAH!!! SO THAT WAS WHAT I HAD BEEN MISSING!
If only I knew back then, what I know now! It is so important for women & men to explore their bodies. We can't tell our partners what buttons to push if we don't know ourselves! Masturbation, like sex, was NOT TO BE DISCUSSED! You were considered to be a spawn of Satan if caught masturbating & you damn sure wouldn't talk about it.
Well, here we are TODAY & things are MUCH different. YAAAAYYYYYYY! There is no reason for anyone to be having BAD SEX!!!
Orgasms are the Center of the UNIVERSE! LOL! (I was told that by my Consultant Director, Sheri Driver...LOVE HER!) I agree 1000%. Orgasms are good for you! They relieve stress, help you sleep better, can stop junk food cravings & provide pain management (cramps, headaches). Who wouldn't want all of those benefits?
I am so happy to be a part of Bedroom Kandi! I am a born nurturer & this new venture gives me the unique opportunity to play an important role in the discussion of sexuality issues, well-being, and responsibility. I can teach, motivate, inspire, & bring spice & luxury into homes EVERYWHERE!! WHAT A FANTASTIC JOB! Thank you Kandi Burruss!

When it comes to the female  orgasm, most guys are confused. This is understandable considering that many  men are clueless regarding the different
types of orgasms  and stimulations that can be given, not to mention if a certain part of the  vagina has to be manipulated in order to
give a woman an earth-shattering  orgasm.
Well, if you're among the bewildered, have heart; today's tip will help you understand  the female genitalia and the female orgasm inside and out.
WHAT HAPPENS?
When a woman orgasms, regardless of which area of her body you're manipulating, her body physically reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she
feels: stimulation in her clitoris, her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase, tension builds within her pelvis, muscles contract throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor tension is released upon orgasm.
BLUE CLITORIS
Believe it or not, it is possible for women to get what is often called "blue  balls" in men. As you know by now, the  clitoris and penis are remarkably similar
after conception, but males go on  to develop penises.
 If a woman gets incredibly turned on, her clitoris, like the penis, becomes engorged with blood. If the blood isn't released via orgasm, she will experience 
discomfort -- just as men do.
 So when  you tease her, you build up awesome
tension, and when she finally orgasms,  it will be an explosion of release. Keep in mind, however, that roughly 26% of  women have difficulty reaching orgasm. And usually, it's her own mental block  that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- it's not you.
DIFFERENT TYPES
It was Sigmund Freud who first suggested that there were two types of female  orgasm. However, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey refuted the claim and his
view was  that there is only one type of female orgasm.
Others sexperts claim  that women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended.
But  considering the latter is literally the other two put together, I wouldn't  necessarily classify it as a type.
So who's right when it comes to  female orgasms?
Clinical studies prove that Kinsey was right. Most sexologists now agree that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter what area of a woman's genitalia or body is being stimulated.
Nonetheless, here are the two areas of a 
woman's vagina that can lead to the most satisfying female orgasm: CLITORIS - The clitoris' only function  is to provide pleasure for  women. Researchers have not been able to discover any other reason for its  existence, which is fine by us.! As well, keep in mind that, because the clitoris  is much easier to find, female orgasm is usually acheived via clitoral stimulation.
VAGINA - Inside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot,  or the Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the  navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that  the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland  (or series of glands) that produces lubrication.
Usually, after one orgasm, guys need to rest (unless you're one of those lucky  guys who can achieve multiples), but it's believed  that women can
experience three tempos of orgasm, which include the single  orgasm, the serial multiple orgasm and the sequential multiple orgasm.
HOW TO GIVE IT TO HER
Many women claim that reaching orgasm is more difficult via penetration than it is via stimulation of the clitoris. As well, when it comes to vaginal  stimulation of any area, most women agree that fingers  are the preferred tool.
Keep in mind that any type of sexual stimulation can lead a woman to orgasm. And although there are some women who can will themselves to orgasm without even  being touched, it is rare.
Massage, foreplay, direct stimulation,and even talking can make a woman reach orgasm. Most women, however, find that direct stimulation of the clitoris is the easiest way for them to climax. So use your  tongue, your fingers, even rub your penis against it, and she might  climax.

Until next time, keep it coming! :-)