Old-school thinking was that guys would run for the nearest exit if you pulled out a vibrator during sex — the theory being that it freaked them out
to have another "package" in the room. Thankfully, that's false. Since so many dudes are open to the awesome sensations a vibe can bring, we got experts to spill their best tips on using one with him.
Buzz it on him before you strip him down.Lay him on the bed, turn it on, and rub it over him. Start at his knees, run up his upper thighs, and circle it around the bulge in his pants. This way, he'll get
comfortable with the feeling.
Start on a slow setting,and use the tip to circle your nipples and then his. As you circle, turn up the speed. Alternate between the vibrator and sucking his nipple (he should do the same to you). The
back-and-forth and the heat from your lips feel amazing.
Turn it up full throttle (the shaft of a guy's penis isn't so sensitive, so he can handle it). Then move it up one side of his package and down the other. It'll stimulate his entire penis and make him extrahard.
During oral, hold the side of your vibe against your cheek as you take him in and out.Your wet, quivering mouth will feel unexpected and arousing.
While he uses his tongue to pleasure you, have him put the vibrator inside you angled slightly toward your belly button — that way, it
will hit your G-spot (the spongy, dimesize area about 2 inches inside you that is pleasurepacked with nerves). The combo of stimulation will make for an incredibly intense orgasm.
His perineum — the small patch of skin between his balls and anus — is supersensitive. Pick up a small, egg-shaped model (putting anything bigger near his booty may freak him out), and whip it out while you're on top. As you ride him, reach behind and hold it against that area.
If he is hesitant about incorporating a toy into sex, start him off slowly with a vibrating ring (RISE & SHINE from Bedroom Kandi). It's a silicone ring you can slip around his penis that has a bullet vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of his penis, and if he's on top the bullet will stimulate your clit
to have another "package" in the room. Thankfully, that's false. Since so many dudes are open to the awesome sensations a vibe can bring, we got experts to spill their best tips on using one with him.
Buzz it on him before you strip him down.Lay him on the bed, turn it on, and rub it over him. Start at his knees, run up his upper thighs, and circle it around the bulge in his pants. This way, he'll get
comfortable with the feeling.
Start on a slow setting,and use the tip to circle your nipples and then his. As you circle, turn up the speed. Alternate between the vibrator and sucking his nipple (he should do the same to you). The
back-and-forth and the heat from your lips feel amazing.
Turn it up full throttle (the shaft of a guy's penis isn't so sensitive, so he can handle it). Then move it up one side of his package and down the other. It'll stimulate his entire penis and make him extrahard.
During oral, hold the side of your vibe against your cheek as you take him in and out.Your wet, quivering mouth will feel unexpected and arousing.
While he uses his tongue to pleasure you, have him put the vibrator inside you angled slightly toward your belly button — that way, it
will hit your G-spot (the spongy, dimesize area about 2 inches inside you that is pleasurepacked with nerves). The combo of stimulation will make for an incredibly intense orgasm.
His perineum — the small patch of skin between his balls and anus — is supersensitive. Pick up a small, egg-shaped model (putting anything bigger near his booty may freak him out), and whip it out while you're on top. As you ride him, reach behind and hold it against that area.
If he is hesitant about incorporating a toy into sex, start him off slowly with a vibrating ring (RISE & SHINE from Bedroom Kandi). It's a silicone ring you can slip around his penis that has a bullet vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of his penis, and if he's on top the bullet will stimulate your clit