Of all the techniques out there that lead to total female satisfaction, these are the ones experts say the majority of women overlook way too
often.
1. Do It Before Sundown
Most of us get it on before bed, but
that isn't the best time for women to have sex, says Laurie Mintz, PhD, author  of A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Not only are you sleepy, but  postwork worries cause your body to release the hormone cortisol, squashing your sex drive. In the a.m., women and men have naturally higher testosterone levels (which explains his morning wood). So set your alarm to go off earlier, and
give him a sexy wake-up call.
2. Treat Him Like a Sex Object
"Women spend too much energy  worrying about turning a guy on," says Joel Block, PhD, coauthor of Sex Comes First. To enjoy sex more, be selfish. Ogle your guy as if he were Taylor Lautner in Eclipse. By assuming the role of the "viewer" and focusing on  your desire, you're less likely to be self-conscious and more willing to do whatever comes to your dirty mind.
3. Let It All Hang Out
Do you suck in your tummy when  you're on top? Bad idea. That makes it harder to breathe deeply, which is a key  to reaching  orgasm, says certified sexuality educator Amy Levine. Instead, try the  tantric trick of slowing your breathing and taking deeper breaths. The extra  oxygen will make your orgasm more intense by increasing blood flow below the  belt.
4. Lock Eyes
You look everywhere but his eyes during the 
deed because it makes you feel vulnerable, says Block, but it's one of the best  ways you can connect when naked. It sends the message that you're really into  him and keeps your arousal high because your guy is mirroring his desire back at you. Ease into it by meeting his gaze for a few seconds and giving a sexy smile,  then build up to longer eye contact.

Old-school thinking  was that guys would  run for the nearest exit if  you pulled out a vibrator  during sex — the theory  being that it freaked them  out 
to have another  "package" in the room.  Thankfully, that's false.  Since so many dudes are  open to the awesome sensations a vibe can bring,  we got experts to spill  their best tips on using  one with him.
Buzz it on him before you strip him down.Lay him on the bed, turn it on, and rub it  over him. Start at his  knees, run up his upper thighs, and circle it around  the bulge in his pants. This  way, he'll get 
comfortable  with the feeling.
Start on a slow setting,and use the tip  to circle your nipples and  then his. As you circle,  turn up the speed. Alternate between the vibrator  and sucking his nipple   (he should do the same to  you). The 
back-and-forth  and the heat from your   lips feel amazing.
Turn it up full  throttle (the shaft of a  guy's penis isn't so sensitive, so he can handle it).  Then move it up one side  of his package and down  the other. It'll stimulate his entire penis and make him extrahard.
During oral, hold  the side of your vibe  against your cheek as you take him in and out.Your wet, quivering mouth  will feel unexpected  and  arousing.
While he uses his  tongue to pleasure you,  have him put the vibrator  inside you angled slightly  toward your belly button — that way, it 
will hit your  G-spot (the spongy, dimesize area about 2 inches  inside you that is pleasurepacked with nerves). The  combo of  stimulation   will make for an  incredibly  intense  orgasm.
His perineum — the  small patch of skin between  his balls  and anus — is  supersensitive. Pick up a  small, egg-shaped model  (putting anything bigger  near his booty may freak  him out), and whip it out  while  you're on top. As you  ride him, reach behind and  hold it against that  area.
If he is hesitant  about incorporating a toy  into sex, start him off  slowly with a vibrating ring  (RISE & SHINE from Bedroom Kandi). It's a silicone ring you can slip around his penis that has a bullet vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of his penis, and if he's on top the bullet will stimulate your clit